Wednesday, September 17, 2008, 06:55 AM EST [General]
Date: 09/17/2008 Subject: Good Man Frustrated
Dear Steve and Family you all are great and many continued blessings I
pray are bestowed on you all. I am a 35 year old single father with a
great job and have a good hold on life (all due to GOD). I was set up
with a woman by a friend's co-worker we met and instantly we connected.
She is a very grounded and humble woman with a spiritual heart and
mind. She was divorced due to her husband of 8 years suddenly had a
change in his mentality and priorities. He left her the week after she
had a miscarriage for a Puerto Rican female, started smoking (the funny
cigs), drinking, and Tattooing the P. rican females name on his chest.
He also started getting into trouble with the law and slacking with his
job performance, in addition causing his family to become very
unfamiliar with him. Calling his ex wife all kinds of curse words when
he's drunk, put his hands on her on 4 different occasions (I live 30
min from her). I took an approach of showing her what a real man does
when encountering a beautiful, spiritual, sweet, and humble woman. I
proceeded to take here to venues she had long since missed while with
her ex (museums, plays, dinner with jazz/blues bands, walks, deep
convo, and just making her feel appreciated and wanted. We became very
exclusive where family and close friends of hers were dying to meet the
man who has made her glow and continually smile, and brag. She received
a call from her neighbors telling her that a man just entered her house
from the garage. She then called me telling that her ex came back and
got into the one area she failed to have the locks changed. So she went
home confronted him and he said he wants to come back and start again.
Long story short she says she prayed and was told to give him another
chance. Leaving me with emotions, and questions that were summarized by
her saying just let's see what happens. I already know what I'm going
to do, but I want to know what the code cracker and the crew have to
say. P.S. Why are most women a glutten for punishment with
unappreciative men? Signed Good Man Frustrated